One of the greatest difficulties in dealing with narcissistic personality disorder, is that strong narcissists firmly believe that they are NOT the problem – “Others are the problem, and they need to change!” One of the first steps to take when dealing with narcissism or bullying, is to know how to cope with it, and attempt to defuse it by being peaceful ourselves. Dr. Peter Noordink discusses further techniques for dealing with narcissistic behaviours in his article Dealing with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.